Carried Feelings

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When a person tries to carry another’s feelings, it becomes overwhelming. With good emotional boundaries, you attempt to deal with only your own feelings and let others deal with theirs. You can give empathy, but leave to mange their own feelings because you can’t do it for them.

When a parent is fearful, the children often take on the fear of the parents. When a parent is abusive children will often carry the parents guilt by owning it and blaming themselves for being treated so badly. 

~The origin of many of these flyers, unknown