What Causes Codependency?

Codependents are raised by narcissistic, abusive or otherwise dysfunctional parents, which cannot teach a children how to love themselves. Children learn to please others in order to find external aproval in an attempt to find the missing love.

Attachment trauma

Abuse causes shame, which causes the loss of the self

Being made to feel invisible, wothless or that your feelings, ideas and opinions don’t matter in your family of origin

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